Your baby’s here, now what. People sometimes refer to the first three months of life as the “fourth trimester”. Despite what you might have thought while you were pregnant, you probably haven’t popped back to the “old you” as quickly as you expected.  During this time, you’re probably even finding it hard to get a shower and change out of your pajamas on a daily basis. Never fear, and don’t feel like a failure. Many women have been there before you and emerged victorious on the other side. Count your maternity leave period a success if you are able to order the baby’s birth certificate and social security card.